• You start to hear phrases
like, "I love you, but I am not in love with you" or "We are no longer compatible" or "Too much has happened. The marriage
is over."
• You are consistently arguing about
a specific issue
• You are arguing often about many
issues and do not know why
• You are feeling nagged or are nagging
too much
• You need a safe place to vent and
get perspective
• You want to add more romance in
your life
• You have a joint goal that you
want to achieve
• You have a joint goal/issue that
is causing stress on the relationship (moving, getting pregnant, etc.)
• You have an individual goal/issue
that is affecting the relationship (changing jobs, quitting, problems with family/friends, etc)
• A new baby or kids change
the course of the relationship